Please answer!!!!!! hair help!!!?

Your hair will grow at its own pace, you can't make it grow "faster" by using certain products or anything of that sort. As for how to make your hair less frizzy... like you stated- don't straighten your hair, blow dry, curl, tease and so on. Give your hair a break for awhile, try not to use any hot tools for at least a month but preferably longer. The damage that has already been done to your hair cannot be fixed but you can refrain from FURTHER damage by using hair protectors when you do straighten or curl or do whatever to your hair. Deep conditioning treatments will make your hair feel healthier, softer and overall nicer- I'd suggest you look into some deep conditioning treatments. Other then that, that's about it =] Regular trims will speed up the growing process and healthy eating would probably contribute to long, healthy locks as well. Hope I've helped ~ xx